We've had this house for about a year now, and we still didn't have fences between our house and the neighbors. I've been bugging my husband about this FOREVER!!! Initially, we'd planned to get it done from professionals but soon realized it was expensive, about two - three times the cost if you'd do it yourself. So we were just dragging our feet trying not to spend so much money in this economy but I was also desperate to have some privacy. There was something in the Spring air which just drove me to a frenzy about planting tons of shrubs and stuff, and that pushed me to researching the fence.
Finally after much research and deliberation, this week we built a fence. A FENCE! It was a crap load of work and tons of sweat, but it was fun and doable because we staggered our work and didn’t try to finish it in a day. We also had the neighbors pitch in which was a big help.
Now obviously I didn’t do a whole lot of work because of my physical limitations. But that certainly didn’t stop me from trying my hand at everything. I helped with some digging, moving lumber, nailing the boards of the fence and most importantly most of the sawing. How did I do it? By pacing myself and sticking to things I could manage and taking a LOT of rest.
Research – This fence was the first major project that we’ve undertaken. We don’t consider ourselves handy in any sense and have never worked with wood before. So I researched the crap out of the in’s and out’s of building a fence. ....... See I can help :)
Digging the posts– Now you may know that a fence requires 4x4’s dug 2 feet deep into the ground. Not an easy thing to do specially if you have clay/loamy soil. Now obviously I couldn’t dig a full hole by myself, so I would pair up with another person and when they would tire out I would take over for a couple of minutes. We also dug the holes over three days @ 3 -4 holes a day. I also helped with the leveling of the posts to be absolutely vertical and other small things.
Sawing – A great way for us disabled to help

with. This requires zero force/effort but lots of focus and common sense. Using a power tool obviously means you can’t be on your pain medications the same day; it is TOO DANGEROUS. So be drug free, make sure you are not fatigued and then do the sawing. Fatigue can kill you literally when you have a power tool that can saw off a limb. With Fibromyalgia this is not an easy task to accomplish, understand your limitations and STOP when you feel you cannot focus anymore. You need a steady hand and a rested mind to finish this work. It was interesting that I felt a lot more powerful and honestly maybe a little insane with the circular saw. It was this massive powerful tool which would kill me and at the same time I was controlling it....... maybe not a comforting thought for the people around me but nevertheless it was my favorite part of building the fence :)
Moving lumber - The Cedar planks and 2x4's were easy enough to move. I did it slow and didn't overload myself. Just took three-four planks and two 2x4 at a time. Sure it took longer than a strong man doing it, but I was proud of my work. Just remember lift with your legs not your back!
Nailing boards – I could nail about eight feet of boards (not much) but at a ridiculously slow pace. This was really tiring and I couldn’t do any more than that.
Measurements – If you’re good with measurements, leveling you can help. Now I'm not
great at it but I helped as much as I could.
The only thing I couldn’t do at all despite trying was actually drilling anything to the 4x4’s. It felt like a lot of effort and force required to keep the nail straight when drilling into a heavy/thick wood piece. Just couldn’t do it. But that’s okay, coz I helped with the rest and considering everything that's a hell of an accomplishment!


Now after the work everyday I rested with my heat packs and cold packs. Took a long bath with epsom salts to decrease muscle fatigue and slept for ten hours straight. I didn't do anything else during this time frame (Hence my previous post on eating out and fast food). Now I'll be honest I had to quit mid day on the last day coz I just couldn't go on anymore. I had to lie down for the rest of the day. After the fence was put up, I was bed ridden for sometime but I was extremely surprised that I hadn't hurt myself more; okay fine I stubbed my toenails and my hand a couple of times but that's normal right? . I am still resting but atleast now I can go out and sit in the backyard with some privacy :)